Release Your Inner Feeings

Anonymous: I'm 15 & I've been with this guy for 10 months. He's really clingy, & I'm confused about how I feel about him. I want to be able to be a normal teenager & have fun with my friends, I don't want to be tied down to someone. But I'm scared that if I break up with him, I'll be lonely & I'll miss him & I'll regret it. He makes me happy when I'm with him, but when I'm not with him I start thinking that I don't want to be with him. :/

I actually just went through something similar. If you’re having any doubt its honestly gonna hurt the relationship. He’s gonna think you are completely happy, when you’re actually not and that’s not fair to him. Don’t be afraid to break up with him for the fear of being alone, your friends are gonna be there for you. Make a list about the pros and cons of the relationship and see which one wins. This is something you have to really think about. Always make sure you are in a relationship for the right reasons. Goodluck(:

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Anonymous: so this guy for the past two months or so has been looking at me a lot during class. even when he's not talking directly to me, he'll glance over and look at me. he's pretty popular, but doesn't talk much and neither do i. i think he's really cute, but how do i start talking to him more? (he's one of my coaches for powderpuff football)

Find something in common, anything. Start talking about the class or about powderpuff practice. Take the first step and just make conversation. You guys can learn more about each other and it might lead into something. You’ll never know if you don’t try. Let me know who things go, goodluck(:

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Anonymous: so i've got my best friend for 2 and a half years now and we're really close. but i kinda think i'm having feelings for her now.. i had a girlfriend for 3 moths but it didn't work out because i had these feelings for my best friend constantly in the back of my head. i don't want to tell her because i don't want our friendship to break apart. can you help? or just give me some advice on what to do? or just tel me how to get rid of those feelings... thanks anyway

I’ve been in the same situation as you. I had feelings for my guy bestfriend for 6 years. You have to make this decision for yourself. If you guys are truly best friends and you tell her, things might be a little weird for a bit but everything will go back to how it was. Start making little hints and see how she responds. Go with your heart, I know its hard but you don’t wanna look back and say what if. Hope it helped. Goodluck(:

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Anonymous: I've never been in a relationship before, and it's never bothered me--I'm 17, I have a life ahead of me and a future in my career and ambitions and doing my own thing. For three+ years now, my best friend, who's a guy, has always been by my side. Same interests, same ambitions, same problems. We can talk about anything: sex, love, philosophy, life, careers, politics, etc. Out of nowhere I think I'm falling in love with him. But he's head over heels for this gorgeous girl at his school. Help?

Are we living the same life, cuz mine is pretty close lol. Best friend relationships are very tricky because you want to let them know how you feel but you don’t want things to change if they don’t feel the same way. If you wanna tell him, start hinting at it and see how he responds to it. And for the other girl, he might just like her right now and maybe once he gets to know her he won’t. I really don’t know the whole situation. I would just focus on you and your feelings for him, forget about her. Goodluck(:

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Anonymous: hi y’all i need opinions! ok so last year my friend and i bought 1d tickets for this summer. (well i bought them and was going to bring her - she would pay the day of) we started highschool in the fall and have grown apart completely, we occasionally text- thats it. and my friend from school who i’m close with has invited me to the concert with significantly better seats for free.. what should i do? should i go with the original girl, or my actual friend?

I would talk to the original girl about it and see if see still wants to or is still planning on going. If she says yes, then you have to think about it and decide for yourself who you want to take. Obviously you would have a better time with your actual friend now, but you might lose your other friend in the process. FIRST STEP, ask the girl if she is still planning on going. Then just go from there. Let me know what she says and I can help you figure out something. Goodluck(:

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